I posted recently about people displaying behavior towards me that I did not want in my life. At some point, I needed to set up healthy boundaries. And say NO to being in my life to a client, a friend, and a family member.
All because of their disrespectful behavior towards me.
– Disrespect toward me in business, how I show up and make decisions.
– Disrespect toward me in relationships, staying true to myself while being in connection.
– Disrespect toward my life path, my inner healing, and my personal growth.
How easy would it be for me to blame them and to be a victim of the situation?
But that is first of all not helpful and does not change the situation.
Furthermore, I have learned over and over again that my outer world reflects my inner world. So my investigation toward what this wanted to show me started again….
I use the mirror as a method: if they disrespect me, where do I still disrespect myself?
– Business: was I already showing up to the highest level possible? No
– Relationships: do I truly honor and value all of myself and can I truly stand firm ground in connection? Not yet.
– Inner healing: do I truly value where I am right now and bring that into the world? Not yet.
Damn. That is painful.
And thanks. For all the beautiful life lessons. For all those showing me where I can grow and step up. Every time again.
Oh, and yes, loss of finances, a lover, and a brother, did hurt…
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What does behavior tell you?
